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The Sausage Fest

Sausage Fest

June 22, 2012


I just wanted to let everyone know that Justin and I will be going on a little vacation. We will be leaving Saturday morning and will return to Raleigh on July 1. We are both leaving our computers and cell phones behind, so if you contact us, we won’t be able to respond immediately. (Don’t worry, our families know how to reach us in case of emergency). I won’t be updating my blog at all next week. I won’t be on Twitter. Neither of us will be on Facebook. We won’t be responding to text messages or phone calls. Do not panic. We are alive. Hopefully we will both survive the week without technology. :)

Also, if you are planning on going to Scott’s pool party on July 4th, aptly named Sausage Fest 2012, please RSVP as soon as possible. His parents are at their home in CA for the summer, so the party will last all day and night. :) It will be a raunchy gay ole time, so you don’t want to miss it! He has been planning this all summer, and I understand there will be a DJ and caterer for dinner. We will all be having big fat juicy wieners for lunch. There will be swimming, mingling, raunchy games, and a swimsuit contest. :P

If you have no clue who the hell I am, then I’ve obviously put you on the incorrect contact list. Please forget everything you have seen and kindly let me know that you no longer wish to be on any emails.


(There was no sausage fest. There was no vacation. He was in his basement)

Meant to CC SJF on this


I appreciate your emails and all that you have done on Daily Kos and with Tree Climbers.  I really hate leaving the site, but things are escalating to the point where I am concerned about the safety of myself and others.  I can handle a little harassment, but when they go after people I care about I can’t handle that.  They shouldn’t have to either.  The Raleigh Police Department advised me to turn off my computer, so maybe they are right. 

I would love to be part of the Tree Climbers organization.  I’m not sure how much I could contribute and fear that my contributions would be met with more stalking.  I obviously have to abandon “The Nephew” moniker.  I’m lucky there are a lot of Matt’s in the world.  :)

My biggest mistake is engaging the stalker and giving them more information.  I thought these folks were just questioning my story to begin with, so I gave them enough identifying information that they were able to track me down pretty easily.  I feel for it again with SJF, good thing she’s a good person and not one of the bad ones. 

I think I’m also overly sensitive right now.  The Sandusky trial took more of a toll on me than it should have.  At first, I felt like justice had been served.  The more I think about it, I’m not sure it was.  Is there any such thing as justice when one’s innocence and sense of security have been stolen?  I also wish I had the opportunity to face my abuser.  He’s dead, so that won’t happen.  I’ll never have my day in court.

If I do change my email address, I will let you both know.  I’ve had this email address for a while so I have a ton of contacts to sort thru.  I hope you and SJF continue your work on Daily Kos.  I will miss reading what you have to say because you both speak for me much of the time.